Healthy Conflict Class 2: Different Styles...


6:00 pm - 7:30 pm


Starr King UU Church
22577 Bayview Ave, Hayward, CA, 94541

Event Type

Conflict is natural and inevitable, but most of us were taught to avoid it at all costs. This makes healthy conflict difficult. Being able to have healthy conflicts, however, is a skill set congregations need if they are to thrive. To that end, we are offering a series of classes on how to have healthy conflicts. Mileva Saulo Lewis will lead and Rev. Sollie will assist.

Our hope is that everyone in the congregation will participate and our capstone project will be a cottage meeting about how we want to move forward with our anti-racism work. There will be a Zoom option, but you are strongly encouraged to attend in person if that is possible.

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Thursday, February 15, 6pm Self Awareness

We’ll begin at the beginning and examine your experiences with conflict, your predominant conflict style, and the impact of unresolved conflicts.

Thursday, March 21, 6pm Different Styles for Different Situations

We’ll explore the advantages and disadvantages of each style and practice listening skills to get at the “heart of the matter.”

Thursday, April 18, 6pm Healthy Conflict Engagement

We’ll use role playing to practice an initial conversation when you believe a conflict exists.


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